Parenting Educator. Psychologist. Coach. Founder of the Effective Parenting Program.

Hi, I’m Dr. Ashley Hofflander, PhD, MSPP, CPC — a parenting coach and positive psychologist in southeast Michigan who helps parents of children with ADHD, ODD, autism, and behavioral challenges create calmer, more connected homes.

Parents come to me when they feel stuck — tired of power struggles, constant reminders, and emotional meltdowns. Together, we work to turn chaos into cooperation through practical, evidence-based parenting strategies that actually work in real life.

My Approach: Evidence-Based, Compassionate, and Clear

When we work together, you’ll never feel judged or left guessing. I combine warmth and empathy with structured, research-backed guidance so you know exactly what to do — and why it works.

Through the Effective Parenting Program, I teach parents how to:

• Reduce defiant and disrespectful behavior

• Help kids listen and follow directions

• Improve emotional regulation and cooperation

• Restore peace and connection at home

My approach blends behavioral parent training, positive psychology, and mental health coaching. Every session includes clear feedback, step-by-step strategies, and personalized support so you can confidently handle challenges as they arise.

Why I Do This Work

Parenting shapes who our children become — not just through discipline, but through how we connect. My philosophy centers on balancing emotional connection with consistent, confident boundaries.

It’s not about being a perfect parent. It’s about being an intentional one — calm, capable, and confident in the face of challenges.

What Makes My Program Different

The Effective Parenting Program is an online parent coaching program for behavior problems that bridges psychology and real-world parenting. I help parents go beyond general “mindset” advice to learn proven techniques rooted in developmental science and family systems research.

You’ll get:

• Personalized behavioral strategies that fit your family

• Written action plans after each session

• Coaching for emotional regulation — for both parents and kids

• Follow-up support as you practice new tools

It’s practical, compassionate, and most importantly — it works.

Credentials & Training

• Ph.D. in Psychology

• M.S. in Positive Psychology

• B.S. in Psychology

• Certified Parent Educator

• Certified Parenting Coach

• Certified Mental Health Coach

• Certified Positive Psychology Coach

• Certified Professional Coach

My background blends coaching psychology, developmental psychology, and behavioral parent training, giving you a well-rounded approach that addresses both emotional well-being and behavior change.

Beyond Parenting: Brighter Pathways Coaching

In addition to parent coaching, I am working on Brighter Pathways Coaching, a mental performance and leadership training program for sports coaches and athletic departments.

Both programs share one mission:

To help adults create psychologically safe, connected environments where young people can thrive.

Whether it’s at home or on the field, my goal is to help parents and coaches build relationships that bring out the best in kids — behaviorally, emotionally, and socially.

Serving Families Nationwide

I offer online parent education and coaching for families across the U.S., including parents in Boston, Chicago, Seattle, Austin, and Northern Virginia. My programs are designed especially for busy families who want structure, support, and strategies that fit into real life.

If you’re ready to feel more confident, connected, and calm in your parenting — I’d love to help.

Ready to Get Started?

Learn more about the Effective Parenting Program or book your free consultation today.